Everyone has different personalities and abilities which are needed to get things done. Many times our personality or controlling behavior can guide our lives to the point we have a heavy burden to bare. We cannot have a fruitful or joyous life being in control. God has to be in control of our lives. He requires that we surrender our control to Him. He wants to tell us and direct us through life. He knows what is best and loves us enough to want the best for us. Give up control and rest in the hands of God.